Founder of CaroleB Transformations, B U Girl, B U Mum and

Naming Day with CaroleB

Carole Buttiglieri is a Life Coach, Mind Detox Therapist, Mentor and Meditation Teacher.


Married and mother to 3 young adults.



Through my work with tween and teen girls and mothers, I have witnessed mother & daughter relationships heal, families restored, self-worth owned and celebrated, anti-anxiety/depressants thrown out and most importantly girls and women giving themselves permission to love and accept themselves for who they are.

Mothers becoming more accepting of their own life and finding a new sense of self worth.

Caroles expertise is in transforming women, especially mums who are frustrated,angry,hurt and internally sad mums in a non judgemental place, to work on her insecurities and sabotaging self beliefs that can stop her from showing up authentically in her own life, or her family and her world.

Having raised her own three children and spending most of her time with women and other mums and girls, she understands all the complexities of a mothers life.


"A mothers past as well as her current life circumstances greatly impacts her parenting journey now. Once her daughter has grown up, it's too late to say "I should have".............

These days,mums can and should take back control of their mindset as it impacts the whole family.

The pressure is real but you get to choose and I'm great at helping you do that."

Carole infuses lots of love, humour and a relentless stand for you, into her coaching work.

Some love letters -

Hi Carole, I was thinking about you yesterday, the last few weeks have been absolutely great for me. Nothings happened, I just feel stable and able to face the world.Im so grateful for having met you & being able to get your help.I've had so much good change and excitement that I have booked into a Yoga course and am very excited. With your help I am such a different person and see the world as it is now.

FLeur B.(2013)

Thank you Carole for a lovely weekend away at our Retreat. It was rejuvenating ,invigorating, relaxing and lots and lots of fun. You made it very special (you are truly talented in your profession) as well as being such a beautiful person. and despite the miserable weather when we arrived on the Friday it didn't dampen the spirit of the weekend. The highlight for me was our early morning walk in the rain on Saturday. But when the sun miraculously appeared during our session , it was perfect.

Rose Leishman (DEC Retreat 2011).

Dear Carole, well its only been a couple of  days since the retreat but thankfully the "good feelings" are very much still with me. I want to thank you for my wonderful experience. I know it sounds a bit silly but there is a definite connection beyond usual & I feel very lucky. So I appreciate the story of the Kookaburra Carole,and again I want to thank you for your teachings. You are a special lady, truly, you are an important guide. Keep well,

Judith Williams (2011)

Carole B is the founder of B U GIRL Workshops.

She spends her time coaching mothers through challenging mother & daughter relationships as well as a womens personal journey that may be  preventing her from being a truly happy mum.

Her specialty is running Retreats, Mother & Daughter Workshops, Fill Your Cup day retreats as well as being busy with her personalised 1:1 Transformation Life Coaching for mums.

As a qualified Life Coach, Mind Detox therapist, Teen Mentor and Meditation Teacher and more recently a Director of Life Ceremonies she has been able to help many families to be themselves and do life brighter.

2008 Carole began her Life Coaching training

2012 Carole opened Relax Kids Escape which quickly evolved to becoming B U Girl

2013 Carole became Australias first Shambala kids Certified Australian teacher. (CCRT)​

2014 Carole became a qualified Mind Detox coach

2016 Carole became a Body Image Ambassador

2017 Carole became a Standing Strong Instructor and Trainer mentor

2020 Carole received her Life Ceremonies Cert.

2020 Carole is studying to further her coaching qualifications

She has also been trained in Reiki Healing, Relaxation Therapy allowing her to bring about total wellness in mind, body and heart.

Today, Carole can be found Life Coaching and running annual Retreats, Conducting Life Ceremonies, especially Naming Days,  Vow renewals and Transitioning into Teens ceremonies.


Professional Life Coach

Mind Detox Coach

Meditation Teacher

Director of Life Ceremonies

Shambala Kids Coach/Mentor/Teacher CCRT

Relaxation Therapist

BIM Abassador

Standing Strong Licensed Instructor

Police Check  WWC 0904854E

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